“Yes. They model after their parents. So whatever the parents do, the children will mimic. For example, if their parents have bad habits like smoking, drinking or gambling, they will also learn to do those things.”
Tag Archives: self-awareness
To Those Who Think They Are Just Being Honest
“Are you going to eat that? I’m so disappointed in you! Where did you get that? Don’t tell me… you went out to get this bucket of KFC!? You’ve been so good with the salads!”
Racism and COVID-19, the Chinese Virus
“I was a bit in shock. And, well, no one stepped in to help. Everyone just sort of pretended like nothing had happened. Then, I cut my working holiday short and left early.”
They Don’t Mean to Push You Away, Adult Children
“Because you haven’t thought about us. Have you thought about how we felt when you made all your life decisions? You don’t even consider what we have to say, so of course, it’s hard for us to tell you anything.”
Don’t Kill My Emotions. Let Me Be Negative.
“Just let me be. Am I not allowed to be angry, upset or frustrated? This is how I express myself, just like when you screamed or punched me a few times. Don’t try to kill my emotions. I don’t have to be okay.”
Why It’s So Hard to Be Your Partner’s Best Friend
“Maybe it’s because if I were your friend, I’d like to know. Knowing hurts and makes me feel insecure, but I’d rather understand your pain than turning away.”
Why It’s OK to Seek Recognition
“Well, of course, all those things matter. That’s what society is after. It’s people like her who will succeed in life because she strives to climb the corporate ladder, to be successful and be rich.”
Sorry, I’ve Been Too Proud To Be Weak
“I thought I had to be strong for you. I thought I had to show only the positives so you can rely on me. I thought that’s what men are supposed to do. *confused*”
When You Won the Fight But Lost the Relationship
“No, I didn’t know. I thought things were going well. And I did ask her. I asked her to tell me her honest opinion, but she refused. All I had was the silence.” *still frowning*
5 Revealing Questions for Self-Reflection
“Okay, so my potential business partner asked me to fill these philosophical questions. Can you help me? I don’t even know what is social idealism.” *frustrated*